tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4519388686337601095.post8894585518488606489..comments2023-02-20T03:00:35.571-07:00Comments on Marvelously Mundane Musings: Positive vs NegativeJenn-n-nhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03930433138301840024noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4519388686337601095.post-23734762232105354272009-02-04T17:37:00.000-07:002009-02-04T17:37:00.000-07:00Jen, I just read this and found myself feeling the...Jen, I just read this and found myself feeling the lighter way that you are trying to focus on! I think that's great. As I mentioned to you in an email, I know that there is a softer soul inside of you. <BR/><BR/>What do I do with the negatives? I try to view them as lessons from which I am supposed to be learning something. I try not to focus too much on the "Why me?" aspect of the bad stuff, but rather, the "What should I be learning from this?" Sometimes, when I am running late for something, I try to calm myself down by thinking about the idea that I might have been in the wrong place at the wrong time had I been someplace just a minute or two earlier. I try to view the obstacles as things that are supposed to happen.<BR/><BR/>Hugs,<BR/>DebDebrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05328458241519464529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4519388686337601095.post-13082931765152143222009-02-01T23:28:00.000-07:002009-02-01T23:28:00.000-07:00Hmmm, good question! I can usually find something ...Hmmm, good question! <BR/><BR/>I can usually find something good about things, but sometimes that takes time. I will have to ponder this more! I am glad you asked.Rebecca Fosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01122579580022107050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4519388686337601095.post-25005381387824637442009-01-31T12:43:00.000-07:002009-01-31T12:43:00.000-07:00Unfortunately, I piss and moan and whine about the...Unfortunately, I piss and moan and whine about the negatives. Then I find someone to blame for it.<BR/><BR/>I'm kidding (mostly).Shaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15987082306573944813noreply@blogger.com